Finding true love for a soul mate isn’t all that matters. It is more likely that it is “Help, I found my soulmate!” In astrology, the 7th house is not only the house of marriage, but also the house of open enemies. It is also opposite to the 1st house of the physical self. Therefore, the alleged “soul mate” relationship is very often a tug of war on many levels.
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What feels certain can also be a number of things. The beloved could give you a great deal of reflection on your animus or anima, what you lack on your diagram, what you have rejected in your diagram, or, if the relationship turns sour, your worst demons. In synastry, squares and challenging synastric aspects are between a pair of karmic aspects and can be extremely challenging. These usually allow you to “Fast lane” Your spiritual development by burning off a ton of ingrained karma. Often times a soulmate will come into your life to do this, but that doesn’t mean it is for life. Negative karma from the past can attract you even stronger than positive karma. Hence these impossible, nerve-wracking and often unrequited love relationships.
Does this diagram mean “Forever”?
I don’t think an astrologer can or should ever tell you “This is the one “. It could be on One thing, however, and astrology can certainly tell you why you got pulled together. You will also be able to see why it is so difficult for you to break up, even if the relationship is making you unhappy. Usually these are moon / Saturn contacts. It is crucial to look at the charts one by one first to see what each person can handle in a relationship.
Some people just can’t take too much drama, others would be bored without it. Some may need a very cozy get-together around the clock, while others long for space so that a long-distance romance actually fits. So it’s really pretty pointless to say “Oh, my sun connects its moon, we are meant to!” when one of you is looking for a thrill and the other likes to vegetate in front of the television.